A little corner in the world

Nowadays, the people, living in the city, have faced a serious problem which they called "Love Crisis". To understand the words, something should be explained at first. The so-called "Love Crisis" comes out no more than a common societal problem that just showed a distrust between the people, especially in the lovers ---- that the man and woman got married easily as well as got divorce ---- and many of them cannot tell why they chose to love or marry each other at the beginning. Actually, the focus of the problem is concerned with understanding more than distrust. 

What's the meaning of love? Many young people, including lots of people in middle age, have confused in this question for years or even for lifetime. Love, so far as I read in books, means a lot of how the relationship between the people who care each other and understand reciprocally.  To care a person, meanwhile, could be done by everyone in the earth, because "care" only needs an activity which could offer a effective help. However, the more important, could everyone understand each other or at least understand the person whom he or she concerns most? Few can give a surely answer. Admittedly, to understand something is harder than just to know something, in like manner, we cannot tell how deeply we understand someone who might be so close to us, such as our parents, and there could be how many parents who understand their children? In this case, to maintain a love or affection between people, absolutely, we need not only care, but also, more significant that a interactive understanding is required in any situation.

How to define love? Emotion, affection or even relationship could be a right answer, but all of these just reach the very surface of love. Moreover, love had been connected with some kind of duty, humanity and spirit talking ---- calling of the duty which we had promised to each other ---- to be tolerant enough to the one you love ---- and have a life in brief and faith that would lead the people to seek for the same dream and same fate…… Recently, many reports showed that many couples had divorce just for man or woman who got another lover outside, nevertheless the media didn’t get the idea how could such circumstance came out. Duty, the answer is, with no doubt. To build a family together, both the man and woman should have a strong brief to maintain and develop their own home ---- that we called duty, so the two, in any situation, must be loyal to another, or else the distrust will be widespread between the two hearts. Of cause, still, we could reserve the love, the tolerance, may be the last firewall to impede the crack in the tie of trust ---- a formal apologize could redeem one’s heart before the last time comes, but only a few have the will to do so. Therefore, to have true love or to define love, we could only concern it to a brief and faith that the couple have in common ---- that they have the same aim of life, the similar way of life and the conjunct struggle ---- so that beside the connection in affection, they could have the reins resuscitated again and again by concede each other during the daily life.

In sum, to define love could not be easy as well as we say it in our life, on the other hand, love might be most complex emotion to the human beings. Thus, to have or to end love, whenever and wherever, we should have a heart which comprised with cordiality and appreciation, so that we know how to cherish every moment while love is coming or going. Finally, I’d like to say that there could be no perfect love in the world, anyhow, if we get the definition of love, understand the significance of love, at least, we can cherish the love that we already had in our life……